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心的回归 – 这一生,我们都走在回家的路上

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这一生,我们都走在回家的路上。

 

回家,永远是我心中无法解开的情节。无论身在何处,我的心永远是朝着家的方向,它在一角默默的绽开,灯火阑珊处映射着家的绚丽。

 

家,也将是一个多么令人心痛的字眼。离家之后才明白对家是多么的不舍,张开的翅膀听到它也会微微一颤,纵然身躯多么矫健,臂膀多么宽厚,在家的面前也将是脆弱无力。

 

夜 深,烟花升,灯火明。多少人已经离开了家,多少人将要离开家,又有多少人想要回家。多少人在异地不经意的抬头,看见烟火绚烂的绽放,失落感油然而生,可 为了所谓的梦想,多少人无可奈何,百感交集。家里的灯火或许没那么美丽,烟花或许没那么灿烂,但是自己的内心仍能感受到家的体温,它像母亲的双手般温暖, 父亲的教导般纯朴,亲人的劝告般温馨。它流在你的血液里,扎根在你的骨髓中。它无时不刻不在提醒你,让心回家。

 

公 益回家的广告,煽动了我们多少泪点,也唤醒了我久已沉睡的心。父母在,不远行。直到今天我才大彻大悟,这句话说了两千年,可有多少人才能明白它的真谛? 有多少人能按照它的旨意前行?起码我不是,以前不是。我不得不悔恨自己,悔恨当初。曾经一心想飞,想离家远远的,越远越好。抛开一切,逃避束缚,为了所谓 的梦想,可怜的父母,在所谓面前低人一等,而他们没有半句怨言,依然在静静的支持你,鼓励你。背后的辛酸与泪水你看不到,你看到的只是灯红酒绿,你看到的 只是金钱与权力,你看到的只是名声与羡慕!你眼里只有你所谓的成功,只有你的片刻的掌声与欢笑。你没有看到,父母的孤独与寂寞,他们什么都不需要,只要你 的陪伴与电话!他们只想要一个完整的你,一个健康快乐的你。有时候他们只是想见你一面,想听听你的声音,这你都不能满足,又怎能谈成功?

 

我 欠他们的太多了,多的一辈子都无法弥补,这是一种罪,天大的罪,罄竹难书。我们太吝啬了,小气到在家就不曾说句感激的话,不曾多一些时间多陪一陪他们。 而我们呢,很忙,真的很忙。我们忙什么了?睡觉?玩电脑?玩手机?聚会?是啊,是挺忙的。我们给了他们多少时间?一日两餐吗?

 

内 疚是失败者的独白,但却是良心的谴责。当车票买到手的那刻,我知道我对父母的歉疚只能加深而不能弥补了。远行,我甚至有些反感了,多少次我扪心自问,按 照这样的走法,与父母的相处机会可是真的屈指可数了。相信很多远行者都是一年回家两次,按照这个算法,我们回家的次数还能过百吗?

 

永 远不会忘记,我们是中国人,百善孝为先。如果我连最基本的都做不到,我就是一个一事无成的人,一个不完整的人。每次离家我都会躲避母亲的眼神,那是失 望,期望,坚定的汇总。仔细想想,我最基本的责任都没尽到,其他还有什么可谈。家,永远是我们梦境也是我们自己创造的,是我们大脑存在的凌乱的记忆碎片在 梦中被一种无形的力量加以整合与编造,使之存在短暂的真实感,并伴随着醒来渐渐消退。的港湾,心中没有家的人永远是一个失败者。

 

无论多久,它总会在梦中出现,不论多远,我们不会停止奔跑的脚步,朝着家的方向。将来的将来,我不再迷茫,不再没有目的的追求,不走没有结果的旅程。家,永远是我的落脚点,让心回家,回到父母身边,弥补欠下的债。

 

这一生,我们都走在回家的路上。

 

 

 

转载自蝶比翼美文:
http://diebiyi.com/articles/essay/home-back/

Five Important Work Suggestion – Very Useful for Success

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This post is in partnership with Time. The article below was originally published at Time.com

 

With so much career advice floating around the interwebs, some of it is bound to be poor. Luckily we here at Levo don’t just trust the haphazardly doled-out opinions of self-appointed “leadership experts” and other dubious characters. We go straight to the top—men and women who have worked their way to massive career success — and ask them. What strategies actually worked for them? Which career buzz phrases should be ignored completely? Here are a few pieces of career advice that you should never follow.

 

1. “Always have a five-year plan.”

Haven’t you heard? Five-year plans are out, pivoting is in. Having tangible goals is awesome and necessary, but trying to plan out the next five years of your life is neither. The best opportunities are often those that you don’t see coming. Being too stuck to your “five-year plan” inhibits you from taking opportunities as they arise, and pivoting in new directions.

 

2. “Don’t be a job hopper.”

There are worse things to be. Namely, the quiet loyal workhorse who never leaves or makes the money she deserves. It’s a new economy people, job hopping is becoming the norm. These days, employees who stay in companies for longer than two years earn 50% less over their lifetimes. So yes, be gracious and respectful to each and every one of your employers, but certainly don’t stay in a position for fear of being labeled “a job hopper.”

 

3. “Follow the money.” / “Just do what you love and the money will follow.”

Equally bad advice, from opposite ends of the spectrum. Following the money with complete disregard for your interests is a surefire path toward a soul-sucking career doing something you hate. It may not even be the best financial move in the long term. On the other side of that coin, doing what you love with the expectation that financial success will miraculously follow is naive and ridiculous. As Kate White always says, think about where your interests and talents intersect with the greatest potential for financial success, and head toward those points of intersection.

 

4. “Don’t be too grabby. Let your work speak for itself.”

This is the kind of advice your Middle Eastern grandfather who owned a small business 40 years ago might give you (not from personal experience or anything). Even if it means well, it is just not true. Remember that episode of New Girl? Jess wants to be vice principal of her school: “I’m just hoping, you know in a few years, I’ll have enough experience that Dr. Foster will consider me for Vice Principal.” Coach asks, “Why don’t you just ask for it?” Jess says, “You can’t just ask for a promotion, you know, you have to earn the promotion with years of hard work.” Coach laughs. Please, don’t be Jess.

 

5. “Don’t waste time applying to jobs you know you won’t get.”

We just published a great piece from the Personal Branding Blog that addresses this very topic. Just because you think a particular job is a reach or you’re not the ideal fit, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t apply. Within limits of course—don’t start applying for wedding photographer assistant positions if you want to be a pharmacist (unless you’ve always cultivated a secret passion for photography of course). Every job you apply to is an opportunity to tighten up your resume, hone your interview skills, and build confidence, which is never a waste of time.

 

 

Article From InZeed:
http://www.inzeed.com/kaleidoscope/life/work-useful-suggestion/

熱帶雨林 – S.H.E – 青春株式會社 柔美溫和華文歌曲

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高 中的時候,第壹次從同學那聽到這首歌,喜歡無比。如今,多年已過,物是人非,做壹視頻以自慰,紀念曾經的青春。"熱帶雨林" 采用柔美溫和的旋律,讓人容易回憶起往事,采用傷感又令人感動的歌詞,易引起聽眾的共鳴。歌曲通過三人的完美配合,表達出了青春期少男少女中感情受困如置 身夢境、迷失在熱帶雨林的感覺

 

 

音樂
所屬專輯: “青春株式會社"
歌曲原唱: SHE – 任家萱(Selina)、田馥甄(Hebe)、陳嘉樺(Ella)
填詞: 方文山
譜曲: 周傑倫

 

 

歌曲歌詞
冷風過境 回憶凍結成冰
我的付出全都要不到回音
悔恨就象是綿延不斷的丘陵
痛苦全方位的降臨
悲傷入侵
誓言下落不明我找不到那些愛過的曾經
妳象在寂寞上空盤旋的禿鷹
將我想妳啃食幹凈
月色搖晃樹影 穿梭在熱帶雨林
妳離去的原因 從來不說明
妳的謊象陷阱 我最後才清醒
幸福只是水中的倒影
月色搖晃樹影 穿梭在熱帶雨林
悲傷的雨不停 全身血淋淋
那深陷在沼澤 我不堪的愛情
是我無能為力的傷心
悲傷入侵 誓言下落不明
我找不到那些愛過的曾經
妳象在寂寞上空盤旋的禿鷹
將我想妳啃食幹凈
月色搖晃樹影 穿梭在熱帶雨林
妳離去的原因 從來不說明
妳的謊象陷阱 我最後才清醒
幸福只是水中的倒影
月色搖晃樹影 穿梭在熱帶雨林
悲傷的雨不停 全身血淋淋
那深陷在沼澤 我不堪的愛情
是我無能為力的傷心

 

 

 

制作: 谷雨 (Essayjeans) @justqdjing
圖片: 來自網上
http://www.tetraph.com/blog/essayjeans/

 

 

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MT.VERNON MEDIA Web-Design v1.12 Multiple XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Web Security Vulnerabilities

Computer & Web Vulnerabilities

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MT.VERNON MEDIA Web-Design v1.12 Multiple XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Web Security Vulnerabilities

Exploit Title: MT.VERNON MEDIA Web-Design v1.12 Multiple XSS Security Vulnerabilities

Product: Web-Design

Vendor: MT.VERNON MEDIA

Vulnerable Versions: v1.12

Tested Version: v1.12

Advisory Publication: May 07, 2015

Latest Update: May 07, 2015

Vulnerability Type: Cross-Site Scripting [CWE-79]

CVE Reference: *

Impact CVSS Severity (version 2.0):

CVSS v2 Base Score: 4.3 (MEDIUM) (AV:N/AC:M/Au:N/C:N/I:P/A:N) (legend)

Impact Subscore: 2.9

Exploitability Subscore: 8.6

Writer and Reporter: Jing Wang [School of Physical and Mathematical Sciences (SPMS), Nanyang Technological University (NTU), Singapore] (@justqdjing)

Recommendation Details:

(1) Vendor & Product Description:

Vendor:

MT.VERNON MEDIA

Product & Vulnerable Versions:

Web-Design

v1.12

Vendor URL & Download:

MT.VERNON MEDIA can be obtained from here,

http://www.mtvernonmedia.com/services/WebDesign.html

Google Dork:

“developed by: Mt. Vernon Media"

Product Introduction Overview:

“In today’s economy every business is more focused on ROI (Return On Investment) than ever before. We’ll help you ensure a solid ROI…

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Proverbs Web Calendar 2.1.2 XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Security Vulnerabilities

Hacker Research Topics

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Proverbs Web Calendar 2.1.2 XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Security Vulnerabilities

Exploit Title: Proverbs Web Calendar /calendar.php Multiple Parameters XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Security Vulnerabilities

Vendor: Proverbs

Product: Proverbs Web Calendar

Vulnerable Versions: 1.0.0 1.1 1.2.2 2.1 2.1.2

Tested Version: 1.2.2 2.1

Advisory Publication: April 03, 2015

Latest Update: April 03, 2015

Vulnerability Type: Cross-Site Scripting [CWE-79]

CVE Reference: *

Impact CVSS Severity (version 2.0):

CVSS v2 Base Score: 4.3 (MEDIUM) (AV:N/AC:M/Au:N/C:N/I:P/A:N) (legend)

Impact Subscore: 2.9

Exploitability Subscore: 8.6

Writer and Reporter: Wang Jing [CCRG, Nanyang Technological University (NTU), Singapore]

Suggestion Details:


(1) Vendor & Product Description:


Vendor:

Proverbs

Product & Vulnerable Versions:

Proverbs Web Calendar

1.0.0

1.1

1.2.2

2.1

2.1.2

Vendor URL:

http://www.proverbs.biz/

Download:

Proverbs Web Calendar can be obtained from here,

http://www.proverbsllc.com/demos/calendar/calendar.php

http://www.hotscripts.com/listing/proverbs-web-calendar/

http://www.c-point.com/free_php_scripts/calendar.php

http://www.html.it/articoli/proverbs-php-web-calendar-v-100-1/

Product Introduction Overview:

“This is a web event calendar developed using PHP and powered by MySQL. The calendar is viewed in month format initially with a…

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6kbbs v8.0 XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Security Vulnerabilities

Hacker Research Topics

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6kbbs v8.0 XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Security Vulnerabilities

Exploit Title: 6kbbs XSS (Cross-site Scripting) Security Vulnerabilities

Vendor: 6kbbs

Product: 6kbbs

Vulnerable Versions: v7.1 v8.0

Tested Version: v7.1 v8.0

Advisory Publication: April 02, 2015

Latest Update: April 02, 2015

Vulnerability Type: Cross-Site Scripting [CWE-79]

CVE Reference: *

Impact CVSS Severity (version 2.0):

CVSS v2 Base Score: 4.3 (MEDIUM) (AV:N/AC:M/Au:N/C:N/I:P/A:N) (legend)

Impact Subscore: 2.9

Exploitability Subscore: 8.6

Writer and Reporter: Wang Jing [CCRG, Nanyang Technological University (NTU), Singapore]

Suggestion Details:

(1) Vendor & Product Description:

Vendor:

6kbbs

Product & Vulnerable Versions:

6kbbs

v7.1

v8.0

Vendor URL & download:

6kbbs can be obtained from here,

http://www.6kbbs.com/download.html

http://code.google.com/p/6kbbs/downloads/list

Product Introduction Overview:

“6kbbs V8.0 is a PHP + MySQL built using high-performance forum, has the code simple, easy to use, powerful, fast and so on. It is an excellent community forum program. The program is simple but not simple; fast, small; Interface generous and good scalability…

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6kbbs v8.0 SQL Injection Security Vulnerabilities

Hacker Research Topics

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6kbbs v8.0 SQL Injection Security Vulnerabilities

Exploit Title: 6kbbs Multiple SQL Injection Security Vulnerabilities

Vendor: 6kbbs

Product: 6kbbs

Vulnerable Versions: v7.1 v8.0

Tested Version: v7.1 v8.0

Advisory Publication: April 01, 2015

Latest Update: April 01, 2015

Vulnerability Type: Improper Neutralization of Special Elements used in an SQL Command (‘SQL Injection’) [CWE-89]

CVE Reference: *

Impact CVSS Severity (version 2.0):

CVSS v2 Base Score: 7.5 (HIGH) (AV:N/AC:L/Au:N/C:P/I:P/A:P) (legend)

Impact Subscore: 6.4

Exploitability Subscore: 10.0

Writer and Reporter: Wang Jing [CCRG, Nanyang Technological University (NTU), Singapore]

Suggestion Details:



(1) Vendor & Product Description:



Vendor:

6kbbs

Product & Vulnerable Versions:

6kbbs

v7.1

v8.0

Vendor URL & download:

6kbbs can be obtained from here,

http://www.6kbbs.com/download.html

http://www.bvbcode.com/code/93n8as2z-down

Product Introduction Overview:

“6kbbs V8.0 is a PHP + MySQL built using high-performance forum, has the code simple, easy to use, powerful, fast and so on. It is an excellent community forum program. The program is simple but…

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